Approaching someone you want to hook up with can be tricky.
You dont want to come on too strong and scare your crush away, BUT God forbid you miss your window of opportunity and expend the rest of the darknes dreaming what couldhave happened if you just made the move.
Well, one 19 -year-old girl on Reddit extended straight to the source and asked men, How do I get with guys at parties?
And of course, some dudes had very interesting thoughts.
Their replies wander from obvious to more elaborated and complicated, leaving me( a female) thinkingthat just doing whatever you miss is always the way to go 😛 TAGEND
Assess your surroundings and act accordingly.
Frat party? Thatll be less talking and more dancing, grinding, and playfully stroking. If he dances and seems into it, go for the kiss or linger the eye contact.
Just, uh, be careful out there.
Depends on the buster tbh, but to shamelessly stereotype frat guys merely improve some sort of rapport, be obvious you want to hookup, and usually theyll be down. Ask him to dance then start grinding or let your hands wander, be his partner in beer pong and get touchy feely when you settle a shot, or simply straight up lean in and tell him you think hes cute and want to do it or something.
That being said, I believe the most difficult thought must therefore be direct and obvious and not rely on signals or intimates. A plenty of guys( me) will brush off signals because they dont wanna misread something and has become a creep. Hope this helps, good luck on your quest for dong.
Be direct, and ask for what you crave.
Show me your room.
Should work fine. Kiss him once you get there.
youre cute, Im DTF
It is that easy.
Talk to guy.
Reach to his junk.
Suggest you go upstairs.
Sex all the sex.
If that doesnt act, you can always try a more move .
Do the brush against thing.
Ask to savor his sip. Volunteer a sip of yours.
Hey wanna have some fun?
Youll get em everytime with that strand if youre just looking for an easy lay.
Of course, you cant go wrong showing some cleavage.
Some guys think its easier than youre constituting it out to be.
Be the status of women. Be around followers. Tell him hes cute and ask if he lives in the house. Suggest to see his room. If youre dancing, tell him hes a good dancer and jokingly question how much hed commission for a private dance. The people wont have experience with being initiated on. Dont take their awkwardness as rebuff. Other girls arent rivalry unless youre all going for the same ultra-hot guy. Most of the time though youll be the only girl initiating and wont have much competitor.